Isn't this a hard one sometimes? It is one of my goals for 2009 and one that I grapple with by the minute sometimes. I came across this quote in my new issue of Martha Stewart's Body and Soul publication.
" To live each day as if it were your last, you would be trying to remedy all the mistakes you made, all the regrets, all the things unsaid. If you live each day as if it were your FIRST, you are freed from all obligations, all guilt, all regret."
(from Breathing Space: Twelve Lessons for the Modern Woman by Katrina Repka and Alan Finger)
At the start of this New Year... isn't it a great way to move on... in a series of firsts, a series of fresh starts.